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It’s all ok. Butler says that the shape worked well, it could have been 4-4 and we’ll be up there in the playoff mix this season.
It was bad enough last year with the goalie situation, but to go into it again is criminal. Maybe if Butler didn’t treat any questioning as hostile, he might have got out of his locked in mindset and improved the defence and goalkeeper.
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Butterfield shouldn’t have been let go by Butler in first place.
Funny once he left many thought he wasn’t that good afterall, guess that’s Scunny fans for you.
For many, it wasn’t that he wasn’t good, more that he wasn’t so vital that we would fail without him or he couldn’t be replaced.
He will always be fondly remembered by me for his contribution to the crowd funder.
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August 25, 2026 at 10:47 pm in reply to: Yet another…’what have you been listening today?’ Thread #325668Well at least your videos work DM,come on Siderite what’s going on ?
My second attempt of the previous song and the one posted just now should work! :-)
August 25, 2026 at 10:43 pm in reply to: Yet another…’what have you been listening today?’ Thread #3256672 users thanked author for this post.
Isn’t it called balance?
Just as some completely disregard anything PD says a lot of us ignore the constant negativity from the normal characters on and off here.
Giving gentle praise where it’s due and constructively point out inadequacies might work better such that opinions aren’t written off by others.
I agree that there are some who are far too critical and are just the opposite of the relentless positivity gang. Some don’t give any grace or credit to Butler or the club and find fault everywhere. However, from Butler and the club there has seemed to be little done to separate constructive criticism from the hyperbolic slamming and both seem to be treated as being against them. It has been this way from the beginning.
I think this attitude is more harmful to them than helpful because shutting yourself off from negativity can make you feel good in the short term, with endorphins from being around those only sugarcoating everything with affirmations, but it can cause you to miss issues which could then become too big to ignore.
Constructive criticism isn’t there to do the club down, those who want hard questions answered in good faith don’t want the club to fail. They just want to be assured of the club’s direction and push for any issues to be solved before they grow. Yet, at fans’ forums and elsewhere such questions get treated as being hostile and this only creates further worries.
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We can’t all be young, spry, fun loving party goers living life to the full like you, xxx. :-)
The rest of us need to reminisce of good days of yore and maybe enjoy some of those Werthers originals left over from the time of Wharton’s transfer dealings (according to alcazar).
Someone who transfers a football ground into his own ownership while promising it’s just financial chicanery and the ground will always belong to the club. Then demanding £3m for it probably qualifies someone as a spiv AKA astute businessman as ha never tired of calling himself.
He wasn’t any better than Hilton just different lies.I haven’t praised Swann anywhere. Him ripping the club away from its stadium was awful and was when I knew he had reached the point of no coming back. However, he had every right from a legal perspective to expect a fee for the stadium, even if there may be overinflated valuations for naked self-interest. It was clear Swann put himself above club and everything was for his benefit, to the detriment of us fans, who actually cared. However, Hilton’s bullshit about it was all about him trying to evade responsibility and hoodwink the fans to pin all the blame elsewhere while he continued to run the club into oblivion. While Swann’s antics were selfish and inconsiderate to a valued club, they were well within the legal framework. More than what could be said for Dodgy Dave’s history.
I wonder how a spiv could do that. It’s not like the fit and proper persons test has a great, thorough reputation. If he had funds, he should have been able to pay for what the club owed (how dare they expect money?), but he was unfortunate to have all those companies filing CCJs for unpaid work, Swann expecting money for the ground with impossible ransom strips (that got sorted in no time afterwards) and former players having the tenacity to expect their wages to be paid. Which are all valid reasons for not paying, of course, and not a sign that it was all a sham.
Butler has made a rod for his own back, to an extent, with his snappy responses to criticism last season. Telling people to stay away if they don’t like it or going on about being happy about shutting doubters up after a win in a fairly unprompted manner. He seemed to treat anyone with constructive criticism as the enemy, but he did have a point that some seem to be dead against him in an irrational manner. In his first season we had assured promises we would be midtable because we lost Butterfield, partly due to Butler, tactics and used autumn poor form to show we would drop down, only for that to never happen.
People can bemoan us going up as playoff winners only, but he did get us up and it isn’t so easy to do so in that league. He then did well last season. Talk of getting rid right now is silly, but his grace period is coming to an end. He has made mistakes and it is his 3rd year, so he should have shown signs of learning. Yet, in key areas, he hasn’t demonstrated enough, except maybe for media interviews. His interviews so far this season haven’t been snappy at critics. However, that isn’t enough for the on field issues. Goalkeeping remains a problem and he doesn’t seem to have shown an ability to form a balanced squad. He prides his team on fitness, but little seems to have been made about having goalscorers, a midfield that can control a game and a defence that can work together to keep goals out. Fitness is important, but to do well we need more than a team that can get high bleep test scores. Fitting 5 right backs into their improper positions and having players that don’t fit a system will cost us.
I do worry that Butler’s stubbornness and self-assuredness could cost us this year because of this. It’s great that he previously looked after his team and stood by them from scrutiny, but loyalty to players can only go so far. It may be an admirable trait, but we have to be assured that we have the players to get out of this league to the one above and, while it’s admirable to see Butler place trust in Barrows after his injury and the goalies, sticking with players who are not the highest quality will harm us and so far his recruitment hasn’t been what we need.
Of course, so far this could all be teething problems, we are still early on (in 06/07 we took many games to win and look how that ended up), but there are many red flags that this could be a slog. The fans won’t stomach the thought of regionalised football again, so the board will need to show decisiveness if things don’t improve and Butler needs to put his thinking cap on, reflect on constructive criticism and maybe be more flexible. Show some understanding of the need for a game plan. Remember that not all of us who criticise do so in a reactionary manner and want to put effort to support too.
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The argument was always about his money and the evidence of that is lacking. What happened following with CCJs, not paying staff etc should be clear enough to anyone that he wasn’t some loaded, well meaning benefactor (but he showed an email to Simon Elliot!) and “he didn’t have to pay staff because he had hurt feelings” is a crap excuse. Now Matlock is showing worrying signs, but look at what he did at Ilkeston will wear thin now (and I do wonder if Nally had more of a stabilising hand there) that Scunthorpe was a major disaster under his watch, from his own actions, which put the club at risk and now Matlock. Going to see Ilkeston, which has little meaning to what he did at Scunny would have done nothing to assuage the very real worries coming from the club at the time that all, bar the deluded, see through now.
I think most sane people would rather their club survive than have someone wreck the club and think he deserves thanking for that.
Though, it’s always interesting how the goalposts shift from ‘super duper Dave’ is going to make Matlock the envy of non-league to “at least he brought in players and achieved naff all, while putting the club at risk. That’s much better than doing similar, but being better run like similar teams.” Just because it’s clear he is clearly a sham in the eyes of the majority now.
Looks like ‘super Dave’ hasn’t made the club respectable. Non-league fans see the club as a basket case and some worried Matlock fans. It won’t be his fault though. These meanies might make him not pay staff again snd it will be their fault if Matlock goes bust.
Why on Earth would they want us to go down to a league with lower revenue, with attendances dropping, potential sponsor loss, the potential for semi-pro status and hindered ability to get to the revenues we can get to now? Yes, that would mean lower player wages, but we’d not get the other benefits and have higher running costs on things like the stadium relative to the other teams there.
But that needs them to “speculate to accumulate”, something I don’t remember this club doing, or at least, doing well.
Grabbing the first offer for a promising player?
Not stretching the budget to sign a promising player, who went on to be worth £millions?
Accepting old seats as part of a transfer deal?
Directors coming forward announcing that work done was a loan and can I have that transfer cash?
None of that fills me with the idea that we AREN’T satisfied being a big fish in a little pond.
But you happy clappers go on turning a blind eye.In the past few days I have joked about how we have the misfortune of having 23 teams that will be ‘up there’ this season and about Butler’s pre-season strategies. I have little confidence we will make the playoffs and have concerns about a relegation battle given our lack of goalscoring and spine. That can hardly be called happy clapping.
The world is more complex than binaries where we have two tribes and you have to have the same opinion to be considered part of the right one. I just don’t think the directors would be happy with us going down a division, losing fans, losing sponsorship, losing any investment opportunity and getting sucked into possible semi-pro status. All of which would harm the club.
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Why on Earth would they want us to go down to a league with lower revenue, with attendances dropping, potential sponsor loss, the potential for semi-pro status and hindered ability to get to the revenues we can get to now? Yes, that would mean lower player wages, but we’d not get the other benefits and have higher running costs on things like the stadium relative to the other teams there.
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I highly doubt that.
Yep, that wasn’t normal, nor was his excuse for why they shouldn’t be paid. Owners have an obligation to pay staff and saying they want out, people are mean and they have mental health problems don’t wash.
Such games would have intefered with runs around Laughton woods and configuring GPS data for players.
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Yeah apparently Yeovil are going to be “right up there” at the end of the season according to Butler and pretty much everyone on the FB group….so that’s them finishing up there with the likes of Hartlepool, Carlisle, Southend, Boreham Wood, Forest Green, Harrogate and Barrow who will all also “be right up there” so we shouldn’t worry if we look crap against any of those either I guess!
It’s unfortunate that this season looks like we will be up against 23 teams who will be right up there.
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This forum does trend towards the more negative, but the first two games have not been promising and we are a club that expects to get out of this league. We see the division above as our baseline and any worries of underperformance and regression at this level will get people antsy. I am sure many Southend fans would feel like this too, given we are both traditional league clubs.
Anyway, all the best with the season. Have a soft spot for Southend since we both went through the turmoil of bad owners and nearly going bust at the same time. Every Southend fan I have seen has always been sympathetic towards us for it and I saw some donate to our fundraiser at the lowest ebb.
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10th? I admire your optimism.
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If only the 4 directors had that attitude, instead of loaning the club money.
Get over it, there are very few directors who put money into a football club with no intention of getting it back. I read a book 40-50 years ago investigating a number of main shareholders in the 50s, 60s and early 70s including the Edwards family at Manchester United, Everton’s Moores, Burnley’s Bob Lord and quite a few more that I can’t remember. This is not to say they were doing anything illegal, although the terms of the loans may have been a bit one-sided.
Coming back to our club, we have of course only to look at our two previous owners, I doubt very much that either of them lost money during their tenure. They spent the club’s money and assets until there was nothing left, and then rode off into the sunset caring nothing for the club.You’re forgetting that Dodgy Dave was an altruist only after a good family legacy and only left because a handful of evil posters on Bru were mean to him! :-)
I will say that earphone use is preferable to the alternative where they blast their music or videos out loud for the rest of us to hear. They should tune in more to their surroundings because what you describe annoys me, and you get similar when you deal with phone zombies who walk while transfixed on their phone screen, but I am glad they have the consideration to realise that the rest of us might not like whatever they’re tuning into.
Or, maybe I am wrong, and I am being mean in casting those playing stuff to the rest of us as selfish and inconsiderate. According to some, they’re just eager for the rest of us to share in their likes:
Ricky Gervais.
https://www.thetimes.com/culture/tv-radio/article/ricky-gervais-alley-cats-interview-bww22f2sv
Or maybe I don’t like your comedy because it’s weak and not because I am clutching pearls?
It is just one game so far this season, but Whitehall’s form was poor in the final months of last season.
bpg would prefer mandatory church service.
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Farage brought it on himself with his ridiculous attempt to avoid scrutiny for corruption. Farage seems to seem checks and balances or any attempt to hold him to account as beneath him, where we should just trust his greatness.
It could be like the Ben Stokes situation, which was initially reported as Stokes being the aggressor, only for it to be him protecting two gay guys.
Seen some rumours that Toney was reacting to the aggressor, but they are only rumours, and I don’t think we can judge until we know more.
As soon as someone dies we have to pretend the deceased was a venerable saint or we are bad people. I don’t mean we should rejoice in their death, we can have sympathy with them for being human and with their family, but criticising them for views and actions is seen as horrible. So we must pretend they were great people.
It happened with Widdecome, now it’s happening with Rod Liddle. The guy was a sexist boor and punched his pregnant girlfriend once, but any mention of this apparently makes you the bad guy for some, while glossing over it for a biased and rosy view is good. I am sure, like everyone, he had his good points, but the bad needs mentioning while many eulogise him as some great person.
There is something ironic in how he used to glory in offending others and his fans liked that, telling critics to not be so politically correct, and now they’re pearl clutching because critics think he might have been nasty.
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Against your odds maybe but not mine, I fully expected a playoff position last season, explained so many times that watching paint dry is not for me.
Fully understand different fans want/expect different things, your in the PD Positive gang side of things and I’m happy for you, at Marine you’d have creamed your pants coming away with a win where others saw it differently.This is like politics as a centrist. To some on the left you’re a Nazi, to some on the right you’re a pinko commie.
Anything remotely positive and optimistic and you’re like Positivity Dave. Anything remotely critical and the Positivity Dave fans will say you’re a moaning Bru git.
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