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  • #286143
    Iron-aweIron-awe
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    JI and BPG. Why don’t you just meet up again and reconcile your differences? Life’s too short and you’re too old to be behaving as you are on a public forum.

    This, although I believe bill would find such an action incredibly difficult, he does appear to carry a massive Christian chip on his shoulder, JI by comparison seems a lot more laid back in his attitude on this particular matter between them.

    #286151
    billpuntonsghostbillpuntonsghost
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    You are completely wrong ,I have held out a hand of reconciliation,but the offer has been refused ( just to put the record straight.)

    #286153
    HeathHeath
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    (just to put the record straight.)

    I’ll update my files.

    #286164
    dandaherron@yahoo.co.ukJust Iron
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    Lots to regret in this for me. One huge one is that this has been aired in public. Maybe I should have kept stum when Bill aired his grievances. I did for a while but eventually felt that some explanation was needed. If you think that there is an intensity and relentlessness surrounding Bill’s grievance … you should see the phone and e mail record I’ve endured over the last 18 months. I certainly do regret responding to the initial request for personal contact and meeting a couple of years ago. A sobering lesson in this modern age where social media brings us into social contacts which are not altogether natural.
    My offer to meet Bill for mediation with a mutually trusted 3rd party still stands… but I have no confidence that a one to one will be productive. I do hope that we can both agree to disagree and finally move on … let’s see.

    #286166
    FiftyPenceFifty Pence
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    If bpg is theologically correct, and only people with his views are in the promised land, suddenly brimstone and hellfire are starting to sound like a better option.

    #286167
    billpuntonsghostbillpuntonsghost
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    “I have no confidence that a one to one would be productive”.
    Deeryme-“ why don’t you just meet up again and reconcile your differences?”
    The offer has been there for a long long time Deeryme,but the offer has been declined,wanting a Judge and jury encounter instead,unfortunately.

    #286170
    dandaherron@yahoo.co.ukJust Iron
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    I’m totally happy to meet up with a mature 3rd party to help, Bill. It’s a recommended route in situations of disagreement and conflict. I’ll drive over from Leeds and it can be your Pastor or Church leader who will be a total stranger to me. Nothing to do with judges or juries. We’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain.
    Failing that then let’s reap the fruit of your statement that you’ve forgiven ‘completely’ and that you’re over it ‘completely’…. and put it behind us.

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    billpuntonsghostbillpuntonsghost
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    If he says you were wrong in your post,will you apologise?

    #286172
    Iron-aweIron-awe
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    Is BPG the David Hilton of the non football section on bru?, well he does appear to believe he is never wrong and seems to believe he is the only genuine person on this forum. I think you are correct in your 3rd party approach JI, sensible and safest route to go down if you feel you need to.

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    #286173
    dandaherron@yahoo.co.ukJust Iron
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    Bill ..you just don’t get it do you? Mediation is not about winners and losers…’a judge and jury encounter’ … its about finding a way to co exist, let go and move on in a healthier way. That’s reconciliation. That would be great.

    #286174
    Deereyme66Deereyme66
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    Rapidly becoming a marriage counselling forum this. Divine intervention welcome.

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    Deereyme66Deereyme66
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    And here it is

    #286176
    dandaherron@yahoo.co.ukJust Iron
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    Yep. I see what you’re saying, Deerey. It must seem pretty strange to an onlooker and I’ve been a bit surprised how restrained folks have been in their comments.Time to knock off. Ive made my offer to Bill. Nothing more on this from me.

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    billpuntonsghostbillpuntonsghost
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    ..and one final point from me. We were friends,you sent a a character assassination post that was unjustified to a person you hardly knew. Hurt was the result.You reply has always been,” get over it and move on. “ I have ,but you still have the high and mighty stance you were right.Shame.

    #286180
    Iron-aweIron-awe
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    The last word eh, hopefully you can now shut up bill and move on, JI certainly comes across as the much bigger person on this one.

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    ..and one final point from me. We were friends,you sent a a character assassination post that was unjustified to a person you hardly knew. Hurt was the result.You reply has always been,” get over it and move on. “ I have ,but you still have the high and mighty stance you were right.Shame.

    Constant regurgitation of this matter doesn’t make me think you have got over it.

    #286185
    billpuntonsghostbillpuntonsghost
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    The unrepentant sinner always favours the unrepentant sinner,Iron-awe.
    Your last post gives me great comfort,thanks.

    #286188
    Iron-aweIron-awe
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    Still can’t shut it can you, weak Christian I reckon.

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