I wouldn’t say Deerey alone needs to lighten up. Your posts have been dreary throughout, and while some of the criticism is with merit, it’s overwhelmingly bleak and often OTT. Like Eeyore. I don’t mean to be nasty, just giving my opinion since the overall tone has been dour from your first post and is a bit sapping.
Obviously I am a big boy, so can deal with it and don’t expect you to have to take this into any consideration. Just an opinion given you are saying others should lighten up. Honestly, no hard feelings meant in this post.