I’m totally happy to meet up with a mature 3rd party to help, Bill. It’s a recommended route in situations of disagreement and conflict. I’ll drive over from Leeds and it can be your Pastor or Church leader who will be a total stranger to me. Nothing to do with judges or juries. We’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Failing that then let’s reap the fruit of your statement that you’ve forgiven ‘completely’ and that you’re over it ‘completely’…. and put it behind us.