The words patronising,pompous and arrogant are words I didn’t choose lightly.
Your insulting post which led to our fallout ( which you constantly dismiss as “ get over it”) is the reason I use those words. Have I forgiven you,completely. Have I got over it,completely. But until you realise you were completely wrong ,speaking to a person you hardly knew,and unable to say sorry for the hurt inflicted ,I will consider the words fully appropriate.