I can assure you Ironawe that I am not a victim of my upbringing, my dad would have me brought up as a cod, so all my views are mine and mine alone though I would say at least 90% will be different to most of the population, just because I don’t accept that being a gay is acceptable doesn’t mean I’m in the wrong, unless there’s some devine person, God, Deity whatever and not some government who says what I should accept them, I don’t and I won’t. As for the grandkids I know I’m a bad influence on them but all their parents know what I’m like but always been happy for me to take them to football swearing and all, I go out I don’t lecture people but in conversations I will always express my views and some are very out there whether people like it or not, my wife says I should be more empathetic or at least show it but it don’t happen, can’t imagine I’m going to change now. Thanks for the other comments by the way I like a laugh even if sometimes it’s at my expense.