It’s alive in the sense of a multicellular organism, with self-replication. Not in the sense of a baby, with sentience and emotions.
Of course miscarriages will cause grief, because the mother wants to be a mother and is distraught at the thought of not being one and not meeting the baby after development. This doesn’t change it for others or make a zygote or fetus become an actual baby after a few weeks of gestation.