“You seem to think as a soon as the sperm meets the ova it is alive in the sense of a baby.”
It is alive ,it is growing and a potential baby.If nature takes its rightful course it will grow into a fully grown baby. You were once in that position. To destroy a growing baby is evil- whatever stage of development it is in.
Miscarriages can happen in the the early stages of growth and the mother will certainly grieve for the unborn creation,whatever age.